Group one’s summary will be at the end again 🙂
We’ve been in Sweden over a week now and have mainly been settling in to life here. Kate has done several work shifts while I’m at home with Saoirse. We haven’t ventured too far as Kate only had single days off and learning a new system through google translate is bloody tiring. Also, to be fair to Saoirse, she needs to get an opportunity to get moving after the time spent driving.
So, what have we seen/learned of Sweden so far? Well, we’re based in a small town called Smedby that is 8km outside a city of 60,000 called Kalmar. Kalmar was voted summer town of the year recently so seems like we’ve hit the jackpot with regard to location. To be honest, we didn’t think there would be a lot here as the main attractions that are talked about in guidebooks, etc aren’t here but there is loads to see and we’re looking forward to getting out there when we’ve a run of days off together – starting this weekend with a trip to the island of Oland with Kate’s parents! More on that next week.
But even if we’re not driving blankety-blank miles in a van across multiple borders, there’s been some cool things about settling in to ‘live’ in a new country and culture for a bit. I think I speak for the three of us when I say that we’ve been impressed by Sweden and the Swedes so far. Top of the list is that the Swedes are, generally, a friendly bunch. It has made getting around the place and settling in super easy. From Kate’s work colleagues to the people working in shops/ on the bus that have to decipher my terrible Swedish, they couldn’t be more welcoming. There is a government-run Swedish course online setup for immigrants and I hope to get into that in my spare time. It seems like it’d be a better base than google translate, which by the way is a great app to get nonetheless. The difficulty will be getting a chance to practice. Generally, people can switch between Swedish and perfect English in a split second and many have done this in response to me butchering their language. I’ve been appreciative of it though.
There’s some quirky things about the local’s tastes. I guess they wouldn’t be quirky if I grew up with it but they go mad for knackerbrod (think of ryvita but not soul-destroyingingly tasteless), shaving cheese off a massive block and fish in a jar.
Pic. Swedish survival kit – Knackerbrod (Knackerbread, kid!), pickled fish in a jar, a massive round of cheese (this 1kg block was the smallest available in the shop, you can get ones that weigh several kgs) and a cheese slicer.
Pic. Fika (Swedish word for coffee and cake). Kanelbulle (cinnamon buns) – Yum!
Another thing that’s stood out is that the liquor stores/off-licenses are government-run. The main supermarkets won’t sell much/any alcohol and if they do it will be low alcohol drinks – apart from Lidl, Lidl does whatever the hell it wants. The government run stores are called system bolaget (https://www.omsystembolaget.se/english/). The main aim of this system is to reduce alcohol-related problems by selling alcohol in a responsible way, without profit motive. There aren’t many about so this means that alcohol isn’t that accessible. We’ve been to our closest one here and it feels like you’re in a pharmacy rather than a shop. Supposedly, years ago you had to go up to the counter and ask for the alcohol as it was all kept behind the counter rather than being able to browse along the shelves. I wouldn’t have gotten far with my fake ID when I was 16! The system bolaget, also, has taken some serious steps to ensure their trade is fair for workers and environmentally friendly. All in all, pretty impressive stuff.
Pic. Motorhead whiskey at the system bolaget. Price 666.
Anyway, back to Kalmar (https://www.kalmar.com/en). Kalmar is a coastal city in SE Sweden. Historically, it was a very important town and still has a castle, some of the old fortified walls, an impressive cathedral and cobblestone streets in the older part of town. It’s all nicely preserved and maintained and a good place for a stroll around.
Pic. Out and about in Kalmar
Apart from a rich history the town benefits from being close to the sea and has many swimming beaches and a marina. It’s really popular to get outdoors, especially, with the consistent good weather recently. There’s a steady stream of people out walking, running and cycling on the extensive shared use pathways.
Pic. Kate and Saoirse ready for road on a cycling day trip.
So what does the life of a latte dad (Swedish nickname for a stay-at-home Dad) entail? Non-stop lattes of course!
Pic. Enjoying a latte
At 4EURO or 6NZD, maybe not. Apart from the household chore stuff which I won’t bore you with there’s the hanging out with Saoirse. It’s pretty amazing seeing her picking up new skills. This past week she’s figured out how to climb steps, is making some big efforts towards communicating and exerting her independence. It is great to watch and I’m lucky to have the opportunity. I’ve purposefully kept things low-key on the days when Kate’s working so that Saoirse can have the time to move about and explore. If there’s one thing I’ve discovered, it’s that when you’re at home with a kid, it’s good to make sure that you still fit something into the day for yourself. So Saoirse and I go for a buggy run together most days. I’ve been working on it for number of months to find when is the best time to take her out and generally if she’s had a sleep and has a full belly, we’re ready to go. There’s a wooded area nearby which we run to and then do a nice loop through the forest before going the same way home. There’s always a stop at the playground on the way back so we both feel like we’ve gotten something out of it. The reaction of people when I’m out running with the buggy can be pretty funny at times but as said the Swedes are a nice bunch so it’s generally greeted with smiles and some thumbs up. It’s about 6km, which is short but keeps her interest and its better than getting no running in.
Pic. Buggy and backpack adventures and Saoirse enjoying her reward at the playground.
OK group one. We’ve been a week in Sweden and are all impressed by the place so far. The locals are friendly and our nearest city has a lot of interesting stuff going on. Kate’s found working here is good although the new system and language is fairly draining too. From this weekend the travel blog will involve some travel as Kate is off and her parents are over but it’s been good for us to settle into our new place this week and give Saoirse some time to practice her new skills.